How often do you ask yourself “can I afford it”  when buying something?   And how do you answer it? Do you run the numbers? Or go by gut feeling?   And if it’s a joint purchase to be made with your partner, do you discuss it and take the decision together? Or just do it, and deal with the consequences later? Lately this question of “can I afford it”  has been on my mind a lot, both because I often hear it in coaching sessions with my clients, and because Carlos and I are in t